How to marry someone out of your league. One of my best relationship tips to make someone happy is make sure you are speaking the same language. When Sohee and I first started dating, I did things that I thought made her feel special and she did things that she thought made me feel special. But some of those things didn’t land as well as we had hoped. Over time, I realised that the way she expresses and appreciates love was very different to how I showed it. So I spent more time doing things tha